I’m 40 and have been divorced from my ex-husband for four years.
Our marriage ended abruptly, and our daughter didn’t take it well.
It’s been a hard adjustment, so I’ve tried to do all I can to support her.
But no matter what, she is convinced that eventually, I will get back with her dad.
A few months ago I met someone at work, and it’s been going really well.
He treats me amazingly, and I see a future with him.
How do I tell her? I’m afraid she will never forgive me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It is unfair that your daughter has put you in this position, but it’s important you remember she doesn’t call the shots.
She is probably afraid of anyone coming in between you.
The best thing to do is to reassure her that you love her, and with time she will come to accept your new partner.
Speak to Family Lives (familylives.org.uk, 0808 800 2222).
